For the longest Jay has an always will be a part of my life. He grew up a christian and I just would love to say that it was an honor to know him. I held him as a baby played with his as a child and talked to him as an adult. When my mother let me know what happened it didn't really hit me but when they left I felt an empitness. I always saw him when he came to meetings and it was a given we would always shake hands and talk just long enough before we had to go do our jobs. My mom and dad always said that when he saw them that he was always going out of his way to speak with them. I am just glad that he is not in pain anymore and I pray that one day we will all be able to sit with him in heaven. That would be great yasho church and we all can enjoy our heavenly father meal together once again.
Jay was like my big brother. My fave memory of him is from way back when we were kids. Me n my big sis Ash asked if we could ride his brand new red pretty bike around out in the country where my auntie lived. Well long story short we made a bet 2 ride 2 town 2 walmart n back i did she didnt and i got picked up by the police. When i got back he was so mad at me but comforted me even though we both knew i was in the wrong. He was always like that. no matter where I was or what i did in life he was always there when i needed him most even if it wasnt the best choice i made. He was my big brother n my best friend. I miss him so much!!!
~Jana
These pictures shows some of the things he enjoyed doing
Jay was a special person the moment he was born. Growing up with him was a blessing. He loved going to church and singings. He loved to play all different kinds of instruments in church. He also loved to sing. He loved helpin Grandma with whatever she needed. Grandma helped raised him and he learn to speak our native language at a very young age. Jay was multi-talented and gifted. Watching him go through different stages in his life was like an adventure. He loved to entertain ppl. He was loved in many ways! We will miss him dearly. He is in a better place with no pain or heartaches. I just wish he was here!!! But God had other plans for him instead.
Rest In Peace Cousin Jay
Loving you always!
~Diane~
Diane
14 years agoYep I remember that story...thats why u were called Rudy Wal-Mart....LOL U were what 8 yrs old. Some ppl thought of u as an dis·obedient child. I would say u were...adventurous..and didn't know they meanin of the word NO!...;) Which isn't always a good thing. O wow I was just remembering that time and present time. U really started out young huh ;) O mercy u were a silly child back then and things seem not to change for ya now....;) Ok it has ur not as bad. love ya silly gurl :)